Dearest T,
Today we officially celebrate twenty-five years of being together, loving each other and working through everything that life has thrown at us. Even on our worst of days, I would always choose you every day and every minute. You are always worth it and always have been.
Not only did we find each other in this vast universe but we make the conscious effort to make our lives the best that they can be. It hasn’t always been easy but its always been worth it.
I have enjoyed each of our different versions. From the moment we met face to face for the first time, I always had a feeling about you. Not only were you fucking hot as hell but I had no idea how incredibly lucky I was to have found you.
From B to T, you have always been mine, even before we met.
We have been through things that would (and have) broken other couples. We continue to make sure that we stay by each other’s sides, even when it’s hard to make that choice. We aren’t afraid to choose the hard option.
(In more ways that one.) ;)
You are my favorite human being on this earth. Yes, I love our kids, but you are above them. When our days of rearing children are over, we have each other in the end. I look forward to the days where we get to enjoy being just us, when we can sit back and celebrate all our hard work come true. Together, we have welcomed four children to this earth and continue to try and steer them towards being the best human beings possible. As we’ve grown, we aren’t afraid to make mistakes and learn how to fix them, to apologize and understand that’s what makes us human after all. We are working hard to heal the damages that were placed upon us by our parents. Together, we are stopping the cycle and showing children how they can feel loved, seen, heard and most importantly, know that they truly matter. We don’t always get it right, and that’s okay, but what makes us stand apart from everyone else is how we continue to learn and grow, no matter what tries to hold us. Back.
On a person level, we continue to ascend to the next best level of our ourselves. Sometimes we are slower than normal but once again, we never stop moving forward. From our early days as B and S to the magical days of T and S, we are so fucking lucky.
I found a man who is willing to be patient, loving, caring and understand that I’m not fully formed yet. You have helped me rise from the ashes of trauma and have helped me learn to begin to see myself for I have always meant to be. Sometimes, the mirror’s cloudier than it should be, but you always make sure I’m looking in the towards that mirror. You make sure to listen when I’m overwhelmed, calm me down when I can’t see straight and to always be a guiding light towards a better future together. You let me express myself through art and tattoos, without guilt and never complaining about the price. You let me discover ways that for me instead of always telling me how it should be. You always offer a patient, safe place for my often-overwhelmed mind to rest.
You have taught me how to better take care of you in the ways that matter most, and you have helped me unleash my inner sexual goddess that I don’t think I would have realized even existed without you. I am free to please without shame or worry and know that everything that I crave is more than okay. In return, I have taught you that all your sexual desires are beyond normal because you are with a woman who sees and loves every ounce of you, especially the dirty parts. Together, we have formed a really fucking hot sex life. We have created things that others only dream about! As we continue to grow in our dynamic journey, I look forward to how truly powerful you are and how truly pleasing I can be. You drive me wild in all the ways that I never knew I wanted to be. You bring out this inner sexual being that I only dreamed of being. The truth is, if I’m not with you, this side of me doesn’t exist. I don’t crave anyone else like I crave you. Your body, your skin, your smell, and your delicious flavor are what drive me feral. As you already know, I cannot get enough of your cum. Swallowing you down and knowing you liv inside of me, pleases you in a way that I don’t fully understand but I know the light that it brings to me. When you feed me, I feel full in more ways than I can count. When we connect our bodies in different ways and moan each other’s names while we come undone, it’s like a song to the gods.
We are an unwritten story with so many more chapters to be shared.
These past 25 chapters have exceeded my expectations.
I’m not sure if I truly understood what marriage meant because growing up, I never saw any good examples of what a healthy marriage should be. I just knew that I loved you and that I wanted to be with you forever. Even at 18 years old, I knew. Others looked at me like I was crazy but here we are with a quarter century behind us. In the early years of us, we learned how to coexist together, how to share, how to communicate and how to work through whatever came our way. In the middle years, we learned that it was okay to say that we were wrong and that we could make a choice to start over again. In our most recent years, we have made the choice to discover each other’s communication type, learn each other’s bodies in all the best ways and to not walk forward but to run.
Most importantly, we aren’t afraid to be who we are.
We know and understand each other in ways that we couldn’t when we first met. I’m over the moon excited to see what the next 25 years may bring our way. I hope its plenty of time together, exploring any parts of the world that we can and creating as many memories together as possible.
I truly enjoy walking this life by your side.
I don’t need trips out of the country or diamond rings. I don’t need cruises or cars. I don’t need new furniture or a new wardrobe.
What I need is the touch of your skin, the sound of your voice, the smell of your neck and the tremble of your body as you shake with an orgasm, and the tase of your cum spilling down my throat. Those things make me the happiest that I ever could be.
You have always completed me. As we continue to spend our days and years together, we get even more glimpses of how we fit each other’s puzzle pieces. We were always meant to fit together, and I am just excited we found each other as quickly as we did. We didn’t have to spend years with the wrong person only to realize they were never the one. We didn’t have to have a “starter” marriage and deal with shuffling kids from house to house or arguing in court. We didn’t have to spend years lonely and wondering when we find our other half.
I will never question why the universe blessed our meeting so early, but I will always be forever grateful. Without you, I don’t even want to imagine where I would be. You have helped to save me from drowning in trauma, and I have helped you feel appreciated and celebrated.
We started off as a star and have exploded into a universe. It’s no wonder why people orbit to us. I would too if I saw a couple like us. You are the type of man that women only write about. They dream at night about having a man like you in the next to them at night. They wish for a man like you, who truly cares about them, not only pretending that they do.
You make people feel like they matter and feel important. You make people feel seen and that is SUCH a huge gift. I hope you see how fucking special you are to me and to the entire world.
This universe wouldn’t be anything without planet T.
As we welcome another year of marriage (even if we aren’t officially celebrating yet), I want to say thank you. Thank you for everything that you’ve done that I can see and even the things that you did selflessly and without thanks. This year, I want you to feel seen, heard, appreciated, loved and like you are one of a kind, because you truly are. Other bitches can’t have you because you’re mine.
I want to help make your dreams come true, listen to your thoughts and fears with an open mind and heart, and to help you realize things about you the same way that you have done for me. I am forever indebted to you for pulling me away from “family” and for making me feel safe, seen, heard, truly loved and to understand that it's okay to be broken.
Thank you for helping to reassemble my Lego blocks.
I know that with you at the helm of our ship, we are all safe and well cared for.
So, thank you for you working as hard as you do. Thank you for having patience with our kids when I don’t. Thank you for being there with advice at the drop of a dime. Thank you for providing a house, cars and food for our family. Thank you for helping me raise four humans in the best possible way. Thank you for helping me see the positives when I feel like I’m downing in the dark. Thank you for kissing and holding me, especially when I don’t know I need it. Thank you for helping me appreciate myself, even if I'm not 100% there yet. Thank you for always being a phone call or a text away, no matter what. Thank you for always having time for me and being so dependable. Thank you for your confidence and assurance daily. Thank you for your planning and schedules. Thank you for always listening when I feel like no one else is there. Thank you for being authentic.
Thank you for always choosing me.
Thank you for showing me that I’m truly worthy of someone like you.
I am so thankful to have someone like you to walk this life with.
You make every second, minute, hour, day, month, year and decade worth it. You are such a light to me and to everyone we know. I hope I can continue to reflect your shine; the same way you do for me.
Together, we are the world. I would choose you every time, no matter what.
I know you would do the same.
I love you today, May 20, 2025, and every day for the rest of my life.
I love you, T.
Always.