How to take advantage of the opportunity to explore sex work / face it's trauma, before leaving BR?
Hire a GP? With my wife?
Ask my wife to take a client?
I think I would be both scared by and enjoy both.
- I like the idea of experiencing a threesome
- of watching my wife get horny as she sees me with another woman
- of experiencing sex with another woman
- related: of seeing whether I am more sexually skilled nowadays
- I like the idea of my wife having sex with a client bc
- he's paying her for sex, while I have sex with her for free
- it could be good for her self esteem
- he can experience her amazing body
I also think that trauma can be encountered:
- My wife can re-experience being with another woman for money, except this time without so much pressure
- My wife can re-experience having sex for money, without needing to
- I can re-experience my wife having sex with another man, without getting driven crazy by jealousy or anxiety
- My wife can encounter her fear that “todo homen é igual”, seeing me “cheat” on her, without abandoning or “replacing” her
- My wife can see that I value variety much less than loyalty
- We both can experience the difference between sex for money and sex for love
What could go wrong?
- I could feel jealous, she could feel jealous
- Or worse. Horrible, abandoned, empty – needing to vomit, cry...
- Either of us could decide we like this better than monogamy, and begin cheating / craving an open relationship
- She could feel horrible having sex with someone else
- The client could get aggressive, rape her, give STD
- Either of us could get an STD from the girl
- My wife could get angry that I value her so little to let her have sex with someone else
So maybe it's not such a great idea...
Alternatively we can just make jokes about sex work to each other, roleplay it, etc etc...