On a Mission

What a healing journey is like

We buy things we don’t need 
We drive cars we can’t afford  
We go to places social media says are cool
We invest in neighborhoods we don’t resonate with
We do drugs to feel better for the moment 
We drink alcohol to forget
We consume destructive music and entertainment 
We date people we don’t love
We stay friends with people who flake on us 
We eat food with no nutritional value 
We eat “healthy” food unfit for our designs 
We overwork to avoid facing ourselves
We stay in careers we think we should be in 
We escape to exotic destinations 
We stay busy to feel important 
We spend our time and energy on the wrong people
We blame our problems on other people 
We hold on to our outdated beliefs really hard

Then we hit rock bottom

We realize we are not well 
We have no idea who we are 
None of these external factors makes us happy 
We can’t keep escaping 
We can’t keep going like this anymore

This is when we break

Everything we’ve held on to no longer works 
We experience a massive amount of loss 
In relationships, health, jobs, and things we own

The loss ends up working in our favor
It’s spring cleaning time
Everything that holds us back, is out 
To create more space for new things to enter

We encounter people who challenge and test us
They are here to urge our growth
We encounter people who instantly feel like family 
They are here to remind us we are not alone in our journeys 
And that we deserve to love and be loved

We finally start facing ourselves 
It’s uncomfortable 
But we can’t go back 
We have no other choice 
So we keep going inward 
The darkness of the tunnel feels like forever

Then we start seeing the light
We start remembering who we are 
Who we want to be 
Who we don’t want to be moving forward
What we like 
What we don’t like

We realize all our problems stem from our childhoods
We revisit our painful pasts 
We work through them with grace and courage 
This time, we got this 
Our awareness is on another level 
We’ve been collecting the dots this whole time  
We finally get to connect them 
It’s time to feel whole

We’ve reached the state of inner peace
We accept where we are and who we are
We accept the painful pasts
We accept the wrongdoings of other people
We see ourselves in others
We surrender and love

Our journeys continue.

#healing