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blue balls

is it real? what is it?

short answer, yes, it's a real thing...
and it's called epididymal hypertension.

to sum it up: when a male gets aroused, the arteries that carry blood to their genitals expand, causing these veins to get larger. this causes the veins that take blood away to restrict, therefore trapping blood and allowing the erection to be maintained.

when there is (a) a loss of arousal or (b) ejaculation, the brain sends a signal called detumescence. this signal tells the blood vessels to return to their normal state/size, losing the erection.

now, when neither (a) or (b) happens, the blood just stays there (sometimes giving off the “blueish” color) and everything just remains contracted and tight (causing the typically-mild pain or discomfort).

treatment
the symptoms of blue balls are very rarely anything more than mild and uncomfortable. if one does experience long-lasting pain, call a doctor as this can be a symptom of erectile dysfunction or something else. but more often than not, it just feels weird. in order to get rid of blue balls, you have to get your brain to send that detumescence signal, meaning you either wait it out till you're no longer aroused, or you find some way to ejaculate. BY NO MEANS does this mean pressure your partner(s), but if they're down to help you out, go for it.

note: when I say male, I am referring to people with a penis, or to biologically-born males or those who were assigned male at birth and therefore probably have a penis. I acknowledge intersex individuals and those who were born male and do not identify as a man (hence why I used they/them pronouns).