Alright, when I said “transference is high school”.
I didn't mean that you reminded me of some guy in high school. There were definitely no handsome boys in high school.
You reminded me of myself in high school.
And this is not an insult on maturity. See, I was the most depressive in high school.
Because junior high was less sad because misery was just starting. And after high school, in college, and when I studied abroad I had some failures in education and communication (I wasn't confident with my speaking skill). So I was more narcissistic to feel less uncertain.