And while we are at it, I hate feminists because they devalue people with more traditional ways of living like my friends and family members. Actually they frequently idealize certain characteristics that I have. But who's in a normal mind would want someone else to be looked down on so that they would feel better about their personal choices anyway?

They do things like free the nipples in public to prove that biological difference is no biggie. Well I guess biology is still up to debate.

What definitely and totally in their control are choosing a career that matches ability and reality, choosing to do math over makeup or the opposite, choosing a partner with a compatible personality. They don't seem to be interested in any of that.

Why change something you can't and spend zero effort on something you can. It's all too familiar with how a narcissistic grandiose not to be achieved in but to escape reality. With reality being who they really are.