I'm all for sad stories and underdogs. But every time someone says having no friends and everyone against them because of their disability, it turns out they have very narrow understandings of politics/life and allow no room for others.

I mean, I came from traditional Northern region, and people actually told me I should go to the South because my personality would be better there. My friends are all over the place on politics and all of them like Taylor Swift. So it really depends on your top priorities when you choose friends.

It's like how one gender complains the other being unable to be emotionally vulnerable. But like, is it a gender problem? Or is it a “you” problem?

I think people are doing the business of opening up as fine as they should be. They may not be as descriptive as me to journal their every feeling down. But they do sense when someone learns social tricks from clickbait articles on how to be emotionally present and genderly progressive, but like, only learn the words and not the actions. I think most people are dying to show themselves to another person, with the maximum capacity available to them, and the maximum capacity for self-awareness that they can bear, regardless of their gender. And the only people who are technically not able to do that are the ones who externalize all the blames for the outside world. Therefore, to them, there are no people good enough/trustworthy enough to confine.