In the beginning of a semester, I started off as a helpful classmate, because I liked helping people with their homework as well as bossing them around. By the end of the semester, they already fully embraced my evilness.
It's very simple really. If they revealed that they didn't like someone in a straightforward way and not passive-aggressive, I could safely tell them a teacher I didn't like as well. If they got angry in my face instead of giving backhanded compliments, it meant I could be petty from time to time.
People complain that they follow the inclusive ideology because they love everyone especially marginalized groups but why they have no friends. They don't know what they subscribe to is against the very idea of friendship. It's about taking risks with emotions that you would rather not share with someone else.