It’s very obvious that if you have people of the opposite gender in your life that you love, you will get sad when you read the news men get forced conscription. And the stories everywhere. You can’t say you don’t know. Yet you can still spin it for yourself to be the only victim. What does that say about you? Then you go on to lecture they need to go to therapy to be emotionally available. Obviously happy people don’t spend their precious free time to talk more about jobs. Or you can say that it describes people around you. Which begs the question how do you manage to surround yourselves with the kind of people that you can’t develop a slightest empathy for? But that would be your own problem than what reality actually is.