Normal people don’t spend 3 hours per day to misinterpret their friends. For that much trouble they can just ditch their friends for someone else more compatible. Which wouldn’t be a problem if they have the ability to maintain relationships. Borderline boys keep bragging about their forgiveness and generosity, and how much they put up with their friends by doing CBT in secret and all sort of mental gymnastics, instead of, jeez I don’t know, talk things out like a normal person. Really makes you think what kind of relationship it is when one puts the status of the relationship itself above understanding.