Now that victim emotion is normalized, part of us feels accepted for the first time. But only the victim part.
Therapists think “Never been disliked by anyone I’d want to trade places with, so there’s that” is a cool quote after their failed election and wonder why the general public don't buy their “safe space”.
Some of us are more than just victims. We also hate and envy other people. And we see you deny your own hate by giving moral lessons every time something disappoints you, we know that any of our emotions besides being a victim is not welcomed. The only people who are attracted to that kind of one-dimensional validation are masochists, and it's not even good for them.