Right wing anti-psych thinks ruminating on childhoods makes you narcissistic so their solution is bottling up. What they don't know is the majority of boys with personality disorders ARE the result of bottling up. Those boys many times make fun of borderline girls for hysterical behavior on social media and in public. But they don't know they have borderline and narcissistic traits themselves. Their paranoia is never obvious until you discover their journals and find out how they misinterpret everything and everyone so they don't have to be “aggressors” who they deem morally inferior.