So there is like 1 depressive in STEM and the majority rest are obsessive-compulsive. Maybe that's why I don't hang out with them a lot.

They tend to moralize their feelings away, so someone like me is often seen as badly raised. There is the compulsion from their end wanting me to be a better person where I'm fine with being naughty. And on my end, I think what they believe all looks good on paper.

However, their rigid morality often makes me question whether it's the case that they lack exposure or compassion.