Why is it so hard to just admit gender roles are working for you? I, for once, can be as intrusive as one can be, and will never be a predator. Look at me, I'm harmless!!!
Not that I will use that advantage to actually do something. But I have the potential to, if I want to. But if I don't want other people to force gender roles I don't want onto me, the logical thing for me is not to do it to them. It's very simple. Girls all know they have the advantage in case of finance trouble or war. Either you admit it and have more compassion for others who don't even have a choice. Or you deny it out of shame for your dignified reputation and blame boys further that they are not honourable enough.
It's often the people who deny they have potential to cause harm who do the most damage.